Making money or ...loosing money?


What it takes to make money is the same as what it takes in living our normal life-Offering services or products. What is missing is the Conversion and the Focus.

By Conversion I mean, do you recognise that those activities you do can earn you money simply by recognising their values, attaching relevant monetary figures to it and demanding such in return for them. By Focus, I mean, what is the direction of your mindset in terms of the values you dispense. If you give out most of your services or products for free without specific and concrete plan to regain it back, you will surely end up poor.

Unfortunately, we live in a culture where  people expect you to give everything out for free to every other person. They may forgive you if you are charging others for services rendered but you are in trouble if they are the victim. Its even worst if you are a graduate where they believe you have a better life than themselves even when you don't have a job yet.

The non graduate technicians and traders  has managed to force it down the oesophagus of society that they live by the work of their hands. The graduate employee is seen as receiving without sweat not caring how much he earns. The lack of entrepreneurial  spirit in our generation has been the conspiracy of a deceptive society and an undoctored educational system.

People are expected to give out or more exactly spend their life's earnings or acquisition for nothing. They will praise you for being kind, gentle , humble, generous etc but will that put food on your table? The same people will never give you free when the ball is in their court. They will rather turn Tiger, show you their murderous instincts and scare you away. They will go ahead of you to spoil your reputation, reason: to block your chance of revealing their wickedness towards you.

Don't get me wrong, I am not saying you should be stingy with arms giving, or offering assistance and succour to humanity, but a lot of us over do it. We give out everything free of charge especially to our friends, family and others not realising that the same thing we are giving away are the same things that we could exchange for our own comfort in life. Not realising also that these crop of people: our family, friends and acquaintances are the very ones who should  form the foundation and nucleus of our business empire.

Everything in life goes around and comes around. There is a web of exchange that characterise the law of nature. You must give to get and you must get to give. The reverse is not sustainable. Money is not created, it merely changes from hand to hand. In life, somebody must spend for another to reap.  You can not control or guarantee the continuity of free gifts.

Everyone who can not exchange their valuables for yours ( if they have it) hate you. They do not wish you well and they do not want you to succeed. I don't care who they are, family, friends or whoever,  do away with them. They neither truly value you nor your time, status and stature, your person . Everything you are and have. These people should be kept far far away from you, you can love them, forgive them, wish them well, pray for them but move on without them. Chart new relationships with only people who would prove to be loyal and respectful to your worth.

People who would be willing to exchange your valuables with theirs are your real brothers and sisters. They are the ones who care about your happiness. They will help you succeed, transform your life and live on your own terms. Do you know that what ever you get in life was a part of your life spent, use it to buy a better future for yourself.

As you step out of your house today, do it with the full realisation that you are not here just to please people. Value your worth and use it to exchange for a better worth. Make money and stop loosing money ...Crack the code.

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