Ask the question

So what? Did he put the knife on your throat? Some people sit around for donkey years because they couldn't get past through a barrier that got them stuck. The fear of failure is a giant that confronts everybody especially at the turn of the age. Oh! I should have learned these when I was a little younger, when I was a little naive, when people will excuse me and say “but he is only a child,  he is only a student“ now wont they laugh at me? Won't they ask, “where have you been? bla bla bla.  Cut the crap, ask that question!

Every body is at various ends of the thread and none knows it all.  All face the same challenge everyday and its so common to everyone. To  stop yourself because of the other person is to willfully harm yourself.  Failure is not an end, it is part of the sucesss and successful stories are not compete wthout a chapter of failures.  Don't limit yourself by refusing to ask the question. Those who laugh at you today will laugh with you tomorrow.

People don't want to embrace the process but they want result.  How can you move from novice to success without tasting falure. Laughing at you today is part of the failure but utimately it will add some humour tomorrow when the success story is told.

Just understand that the man who is laughing at you also has an area he also is struggling with and more often than not in that area you are a champion. What a person knows depends on where he has been and the more things grow, the more there are people who getting to know about it for the first time. Let your residue knowledge guild you in all cases and tailor your  questions to areas your intellect could not crack.

Push yourself forward no matter the cost, it pays better than remaining stuck. Research,  follow the experts, every success story leaves a clue, follow the clues, do not try to reinvent the wheel, leverage on the available resources and do not be afraid to crack the Code