Pretend your enemy does not exist



Everyone has got an enemy but the worst you can do is let him win. Let you enemy remain your enemy if he chooses to but do not be an enemy back. Focusing on your enemies will sap you of your inert energy and will distract you. Keep your focus on your goals. Your attention is life and anything that has it lives and grows even stronger and anything that lacks your attention lacks life and will in the same way grow weaker and die.  Your enemy will fade away naturally when he discovers that you do not belong to the same class with him. Then your huge success must have become obvious to him. Be careful not to reward your enemy with a cheap point by giving him your costly attention. Go on carry on as if he does not even exist for he is not present except in your own imagination. Sometimes that person may even turn around to become your friend.  Life is too short to waste on senseless things. You can neither add another person's age to yours nor give yours to him,  if your enemy wants your failure, he will only succeed when you leave your goals and focus on persons. You are bigger than that. That's enough threat to turn your enemy against you. . If your attention is on him, your spirit will be low, discouragement and fear will creep in but if you ignore him, your spirit will be high and he will discover that the power at work in you is way beyond him Crack the code.

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