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Relationship is a mine field. It is pregnant with unlimited possibilities. Relationship is like  a farmland where everything you plant can grow and nurture. When it matures it brings forth fruits and maintain the farmer for a long time. Many people wants to get results from associates directly without going through the process of relationship. Such transactions does not succeed or at best do not last because they do not go through the right channels You see, people are more than what you just see on the outside.  That person you are looking at is more than what you see. He has values, he has ethics, he has a belief system and he has unique features that differentiates him from every other person on the street. He desire to be accepted but more importantly he desires to be learned, understood and followed according to accepted principles. He does not want to be badged or controlled. And he is correct,  God made him so.  Do not think you can just have him give you every thing you

The dark areas of our lives are those areas which we do not want out there in the public. It includes our past shame and inefficiencies. It occurs in people of all ages, both children, youths, and adults. Positively it's also those Areas of our lives which people don't see but which often is the powerhouse of our success today. Like those boring things we do in the secret which people do not get to see often but which actually generates our successes - like your study and deep meditation/prayer time.  The negative dark areas has occurred and never need to continue to occur. We have, I hope learned the lesson there in but then its time to drop them for the light. Dark areas for some of you, is smoking cigarettes, marijuana, coke etc, for other it is women and/or men, for yet another, it is gambling, for anothers, its crime. Dark areas can also be the intangibles, like negative stubbornness, unteachable spirit, wrong arguements, anger, pride, superiority complex, inferiorit

Before the creator approved 24 hours to make a full day, he already knew it is enough. You need to work, you need to play and you also need to rest. He knows the capacity of the human body and knows how long it needs to re-corporate.   How long it will take it to break down.  All these he factored into a full day it wasn't just an accident or a declaration “let there be light and let the light be separated from darkness that brought about a full day, it was intelligence beyond judgement. What ever you need to do and with a good planning, decipline and priorities  can be accomplished within a day. What ever is not accommodated in a day can be done on the following.  Any thing that can not be accomplished in a day is bigger than a day and baring any form of laziness should be treated as such. The richest man on earth has only 24hours, the president of countries has only 24hours, great men and women of yesteryears who achieved record success had all 24hours in a day. So there i

That's the fundamental law of faith. That is the bases on which the laws of nature is built.  Everything in life always leaves a trail. This is the reason some adults believe that children are spirits, they commune with sprits, or they get direction or protection from the spirit. The problem is that we in the adult world has been clustered with too much experiences, noises , fears,  worries, and distractions that our spirit has been blurred from speaking clearly and deriving directions equally from it. Otherwise, the spirit is always on the look out for us and always reaching out to us for insights, hints and directions on what exactly to do in every situation into which we come. Do not be deceived, what you see is what it is. We have heard it said that “not all that glitters is gold“ true but not in this sense. It is in the clues a thing leaves behind that you could follow to discover exactly where it is going. I have watched a movie where some criminals wanted to expose a gov

How do you see people? How you see people matters a lot because how you see people would invariable determine how they see you. Do you see People as those individuals you owe a duty to say hi every morning or do you see them as individuals with whom you are engaged in a flourishing relationship. If you see people as people you just greet and pass, you might end up in their eyes as that individual who normally pass here and greet us or that individual who lives in our neighbourhood. There is no passion, feeling or connection towards you. Everything is casual they regard you casual too.  You do not get to 'know“ them even after many years of knowing them. They too know you but from other people's perspectives. Your realities are wide apart, understanding is shrouded. You do not get to know them and they do not get to know you so you remain strangers to each other. Their passions, enthusiasm, principles, ideas,  expectations, values, history and personal experiences are alien