Everything happen in a Relationship

Relationship is a mine field. It is pregnant with unlimited possibilities.
Relationship is like  a farmland where everything you plant can grow and nurture. When it matures it brings forth fruits and maintain the farmer for a long time. Many people wants to get results from associates directly without going through the process of relationship. Such transactions does not succeed or at best do not last because they do not go through the right channels

You see, people are more than what you just see on the outside.  That person you are looking at is more than what you see. He has values, he has ethics, he has a belief system and he has unique features that differentiates him from every other person on the street. He desire to be accepted but more importantly he desires to be learned, understood and followed according to accepted principles. He does not want to be badged or controlled. And he is correct,  God made him so.  Do not think you can just have him give you every thing you ask as of right.  No!

Respect him, respect the things he respects, honour him and he will end up to you.
Treat people courteously and surely they will respond to you.

When you develop the attitude of cultivating friendship by being friendly yourself, people of like minds will be attracted to you. Start showing interest in them and the things they care about, develop rapport in the process of these and reward them with immense value for their time. Naturally, they will find themselves feeling indepted to you and its only a matter of time, a relationship is built. Anything you ask, you have a brighter chance.

It is often said that people don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. In your journey with friends, remember to be courteous, be yourself for no one is perfect, but most of all relate on the basis of true love, don't fake.  If you don't know how to relate with people, your resources will be small, increase your resources, increase your chance, improve your success, crack that code!